Life isn’t as serious as the mind makes it out to be — Eckhart Tolle.
Hello my friends, I made it once again. Now my biggest waste of time and I hasten to add, as I am doing it I am aware I am wasting minutes, hours and then the day is done, is ;
No it’s not that simple I have to explain, I have difficulty moving around which makes me tired and some days I can’t hardly move so this is my waste of time, my mind numbing don’t think about my situation or how I came to be (ugh) disabled. Ok I will stop with the waffling and tell you.
My biggest waste of time is reels on Facebook and Instagram even Tik Tok. I spend hours watching, smiling, giggling, sighing, and learning at times all the while the hours pass.
Well hello again, how refreshing the topic today is about something I try to love but in all honesty struggle at times. So without further ado let’s just jump into the bouncy castle of flab that is Moi
What is my favourite thing about me? Aha maybe my self deprecating humour, get the jokes in before someone else does.
In truth my favourite part of myself is my eyes when feeling well, they convey so many emotions and messages. My eyes change according to my mood, I have grey eyes which I love and they go from a light grey to dark grey colour but on a normal everyday my eye colour is a slightly lighter than mid grey.
They say the eyes are the window to the soul well mine must be open and readable because I hide nothing. If I am happy my eyes shine and if annoyed I can’t hide it my eyes darken, oh I smile and try to cover it but oh boy if you know me you know to step away from this lady, cause the smile is hiding a deadly spark ⚡️ that the eyes can’t cover for…
The eyes express all the emotions and states of mind and body.
Eyes soften in love, harden with anger, widen in fear, narrow in suspicion, roll in exasperation, glaze with boredom, and weep in sadness.
By Anthony Synnott, Ph.D.,
Not my eye lol 😂
Now this my very tired eye 😴
When life gives you lemons, squirt someone in the eye.
Cathy Guiswite
Smile be happy, sing 🎵 share some joy, look to the stars and remember , this is the reason why, life is fleeting , gone in a flash, one day you have decades then you have none. Don’t take chances thinking you will do it in old age because that’s a maybe not a promise, no one made. so I bid you good evening, afternoon or morning wherever you be, and hope we meet again in my journeys of me 🤭
What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times?
Hello 👋again
I repeat Hello 👋 again.
I don’t think I have ever been a goggle box, square eyes 👀 person. To watch a series once is ok maybe even good, twice would have to be amazing, but never any more.
As for films 🎥, there are a few I may have watched 3 times but I have a habit of falling asleep because I know what’s happening. I just am not that interested in being a slave to the black slab with moving images.
I am sure some people are hypnotised by the tv, I hear my son talking about films and I haven’t a clue what he is talking about, he flicks through a list on Prime and all I hear is, seen it, seen, seen, rubbish, good, seen. He is in his early thirties, what on earth, where does he find time? He works, plays video games on PC with mates, and watches all these films, 🍿.
My head is still back with those dam penguins from the film Madagascar
Just smile & wave boys, smile & wave
I am not a slave to the box but it seems after hearing certain films playing in the background over the years, my mind has picked up catch phrases
So after my mini growl, I have decided I can’t name something I have watched more than five times, but when you get to asking about books then my full attention and excitement will be unleashed
Am I superstitious? Good question 🙋♀️ firstly what does it mean?
Superstitious describes a belief in chance or magic. If you’re superstitious, you may avoid walking under ladders, spilling salt, or passing black cats — all because you think they will bring you bad luck.
Plenty of people don’t think of themselves as superstitious, yet they may do things like knock on wood or refuse to open an umbrella indoors. Or they believe their team will win if they wear their lucky socks. These actions are all superstitious, demonstrating a belief based on magic or luck rather than on reason
So back to the question am I ?
Simply put and easily understandable YES 👍🏻.. judging by some or the customs I have read
So with this I wish you well and will find out how much of my life was indoctrinated with all the superstitious nonsense that hampers life . Because believe me they do annoy me and it does hamper, my mind automatically remembers things,
What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?
Hello and welcome to the world in which I exist.
I love my middle name because it was my maternal grandmothers middle name. To me her name just rolls off my tongue, with a warm caress.
Nellie Marie Louise
I inherited the Louise for which I am so happy for. It makes up for the fact growing up I simply hated my Christian/first name Kim
The name Kim is from the Old English word, “cumb,” which means royal fortress or meadow.” Kim can also be a shortened form of the names from the Old English name Cyneburga.
Cyneburga – daughter of a king
But and I mean but it is also a unisex name in the short form and more so in the 1960s.
Also growing I had so many little songs made about my name I became very sensitive. Silly looking back but it’s all about growing into your identity.
So I am very much an Ancestry sleuth and the middle name Louise has been handed down through the family for many generations
Louise
The name Louise is primarily a female name of French origin that means Famous Warrior.Feminine form of the name Louis.
The history of Louise spans back to the early Middle Ages when the ancient saints and royal members popularized it. The 16th-century saint ‘Louise de Marillac’ was a historical personality bearing this name; she co-founded The Company of the Daughters of Charity, a group or society for women within the Catholic Church
Now I realise Louise is a common middle name, that makes no difference to me, it was my Grandmother’s and means so much. Louise is special enough for me to have given it to my eldest daughter, as her middle name
So my dilemma over not liking my first name and loving my second name was solved with a simple – . Yes I chose to write as
Kim-Louise
If you please 💜
It pleases me to hyphenate the names and makes Kim a little less austere, please remember this is how I feel and never a judgement on the actual names
Ok well seeing as you stopped by just thought you might like to know the last thing I learned.
Life is a rollercoaster Just gotta ride it
It ain’t easy to please everybody It ain’t easy just to be yourself
So I Decided This Is The Best Advice Available
“Don’t worry about a thing ‘Cause every little thing is gonna be alright”
Law off attraction I work for my blessings I’m on with the seven Those who know get the message
Thanks to Ronan Keating, Tim Feehan, Bob Marley & Asiah all of whom I have listened to recently and the words have hit bang 💥 bang 💥 bang 💥 remember my friends worrying is a futile waste of life at the end of time 🕰️ you will have worried away the years
Wow so much I am learning now daily, today was about letting stress slip away as was yesterday. The lyrics stood out as meaning something on my path in life and maybe 🤔 something resonates within you
What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
We meet once more, or are you new? I’m never sure who will stumble upon these words of mine. One thing I can add is all are welcome, pull up a crate and take a moment to allow these words to filter through, as if a group of us weary world travellers were gathered around an open fire. Enjoying each other’s tales of travel and lessons learnt from amazing folk.
I welcome majority of questions, as that is how people learn, but when asked why am I in a wheelchair, that’s ok, but to keep pushing for more info with
Why? Why? WHY?
I have already said mostly due to DV (domestic violence) and then the
Why did you stay with him?
Don’t you think I ask myself that over, and over. But until you have lived my life, walked in my shoes & tied the laces up I can’t and don’t want to keep repeating the same thing over and over. Hell if I could have escaped before I would have, life is never black and white there are the grey areas and off white places that are hard to explain. We are all human and make mistakes and my mistake cost me a large part of my life but I am still here.
So be careful questions can be healthy, just understand cut off signs. Have a little empathy for people and to other people don’t be so dam moronic with what you ask or how you ask it
You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?
Welcome to my world, a life filled full of wonder & of awe, stopping the laughter, I look toward my wheelchair and whisper,let’s dispense with further lies.
⬆️to find more of my poetry , granted website in dire need of an upgrade, which is on a list of must dos, somewhere
I am passionate about words, yes even the bad ones (swear and slang). Words are an expression of how we feel. Maybe a person doesn’t use words the way you do, fine, there could be many reasons, from the type of schooling received to area they live, people they mix with. So many factors involved around speech and language, please don’t confuse those two previous factors with actual WORDS.
Words are fascinating and I don’t think any should be banned, there is a rich history behind the words we speak, and shockingly some of the words we classify as awful swear words originated as medical terminology such as it was. I would never ban a word because that means we lose part of our heritage….
Baboonery: foolishness; stupidity; nonsense
Gardyloo: used in medieval Edinburgh as a warning cry when it was customary to throw slops from the windows into the streets
Gadzooks: mild oath
Whippersnapper: a young person considered to be presumptuous or overconfident
Chicken-headed. Ignorant, foolish
Nefarious: Wicked, villainous, despicable.
Just an example of some wonderful words that have or are slowly disappearing from the English Language. People think should, could, would, why and yeah, plus hundreds of slang words should disappear, I don’t agree, words are like pearls the more you learn the more you want to learn. Like Pearls of Wisdom.
I am even pro swear words for the simple reason the history that they carry, some traceable to Egyptian and Sanskrit so thousands of years. Don’t worry I won’t start swearing today , yes I promise.🤞🏻.
People have been swearing since language evolved. This has been checked with those awful things called statistics with evidence suggesting 58% of the population swears “sometimes” or “often” and less than 10% of the population report “never” or “rarely” swearing.
Wow now that’s a good short word so rather than ban a word why not learn a word a day that will give you appreciation for this wonderful world and our beautiful language whatever language that may be 😀
This is from Dictionary.com
WORD OF THE DAY KISMET
kiz-met,
noun
fate; destiny. (Meaning)
First recorded in 1840–50.
Comes from Turkish ultimately from Arabic qisma, qismat-, meaning “division, portion, lot, fate.”
Although a term from Islam, kismet is popularly used to refer to something that one believes was meant to be or the reason why such a thing happened.
EXAMPLES OF KISMET
The unexpected encounter with an old friend at the airport felt like kismet.
As he stood on the stage, delivering his award-winning speech, he couldn’t help but feel that kismet had guided him to this moment.
Well at this point if you have read all this well done. 👏. I hope you understand where my passion is coming from
Words,
Come so easy to me.
I think you understand,
Yes you see.
Expression of words,
Is an art we must keep.
Don’t shut your eyes,
Yes I see ignorance creep..
Kim-Louise 2024
What do I mean – if we don’t learn we can plead we didn’t know, which is pleading ignorance, so don’t lose the elusive words learn a new word a day.
Sorry daily prompt I did the opposite of what you asked
Well here we are again, enjoying the last few days of February, waiting to see how March bursts upon us, will it be the proverbial in like a lion 🦁 out like a lamb 🐑or the other way round (English saying thought to be around 17th C )(I hasten to add there are many claims to saying I just picked on the one below)
Who first said: “March comes in like a lion”?
“March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb” is an English proverb of unknown origin. It is first alluded to in print in A Wife for a Month, written in 1624 by John Fletcher (1579-1625),
Sorry just went a little off topic then, but that’s the kind of message I would send to myself. Ok here goes nudge me if I start to drift a little
Hey Young Me , it’s you older a little wiser and yes a lot bigger. I know, I look like Granny, but is that such a bad thing she was a beautiful soul, well, still is to you, cherish her and the few loved ones we have, plus you will never make her love you so don’t lose sleep or shed tears over that person 🆗. Actually please don’t chase love Ever.
I have to tell you reach out and grasp any learning you can, I know college is unavailable at the moment, but as soon as you have money spare, learn. What about? Everything, anything, take every opportunity you can and be happy don’t allow anyone to dim your light.💡. You are clever, and pretty and those awful things that happened were not your fault. Don’t waste your life looking for love it will find you and don’t let anyone ever hurt you again. Think if I made it without this advice think how high you can fly knowing this.
Allow no one to make you cry in pain or shameyou don’t deserve that life. Please take this final advice. With all my heart.
So there you have it my friend the advice sent back to my teenage self, if only it was possible, but we are here to learn . No one ever said life was easy
Keep smiling 😊
Kim-Louise
All the things I wish I had thought of saying, but feel.
Bucket of Smiles 